On paper, you have the kind of career people congratulate you for.
The salary. The promotions. The reputation. The teams that thrive under your leadership.
By every external measure, you are succeeding.
But the inside story is not matching the outside one anymore.
The 3:30AM anxiety alarm. The 4PM energy crash. The presence your family deserves, hanging by a thread, just to keep up the appearance that you are holding it together with ease.
You are slowly starting to abandon yourself, in 1,000 small ways.
If you have been waiting for someone to say it out loud: the price of success has become too high. And you are allowed to do something about it.
You are in the right place.
You do not have to blow up your career to feel like yourself again. You do not have to quit, sell the house, or move to Bali to find peace.
What you actually need is a Throughline.
A clear, grounded line that runs through every part of your life. Woven from your values, your strengths, and your core identity. Strong enough to hold steady through any wave of change or growth that comes your way.
When you have your Throughline, this is what changes:
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You lead and perform from a place of renewable energy, not coffee and cortisol.
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You close the laptop at the end of the day and actually switch off. No checking the inbox in bed. No work brain at the dinner table.
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You make your next move, a promotion or a pivot, with a clear head and a real strategy, not a reactive decision made at the end of your rope.
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You stop trading your soul for a paycheck and start building a version of success that does not require you to betray yourself to achieve it.
This is what we build together.
There is a way to find success that doesn't cost you your health, relationships, or sense of self
Reclaim Your Mental Real Estate Your career has become a squatter in your head. Taking up residence at 5AM, at the dinner table, and while you are trying to sleep. We evict it. You get the headspace and presence back.
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Decouple Your Worth from Your Work You have built a reputation as the woman who fixes it all. That identity has become a cage. We tear up the unconscious contract that says you are only as good as your last deliverable.
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Align Your Output with Your Integrity The grey space you are living in is the gap between your daily trade-offs and your core values. We stop the erosion of your self-trust and build your Sustainable Success Roadmap. So your next move, a promotion or a pivot, does not cost you a Success Tax your family can no longer afford.
Hi, I'm Rae.
I spent a decade in healthcare software, leading multi-million dollar projects on both sides of the Atlantic.
On paper, I was a success. In reality, I was trading my soul for a paycheck.
I walked away in 2021. Not because I stopped being ambitious, but because the cost of staying was higher than I was willing to pay.
Today, I am the ICF-trained coach I needed and never had at my own crossroads.
“I love that we start a session and it’s like going on a hike…we get into talking about something that exposes a deep area of ‘stuck-ness’ or a deep-seated belief that isn’t serving me. And by the end I feel lighter because we’ve named something. It’s like magic.”
Client L, Director, navigating career and motherhood​
You do not have to keep paying the Success Tax.
The work I do with women is not magic. It is not a productivity hack. It is the slow, deliberate rebuilding of a version of success that holds steady under pressure, without asking you to leave yourself behind to get there.
If that is the kind of work you are ready for, the next step is a free 45-minute discovery call. No pressure. No pitch. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to be.
